What I experienced as positive/effective:
- – the whole setting
–> I felt and knew that you are the one in charge, that you know what you want to do, which makes it clear that you are the boss…
- – being asked to wait, you doing different things until our child is asleep
–> as it is punishment, you could tell me to think about what I did wrong in meantime
—> it is the aspect of being ignored in slightly uncomfortable/helpless situation. So that could be used in other ways, too, for example having to sit naked on the floor (maybe on a towel) at your feet while you do something else
or stand naked facing the wall, nipples touching the cold wall
- – the whipping / hitting
–> it was an intense experience and I feel really great about taking this as a punishment!
–> could be even stronger… I think we could even test out once how much, if you like…
- – being told to say thank you / sorry / yes / …
–> makes it even more clear that I am just your slave and that I have misbehaved, that you know what is good, right, best…
Overall, I was completely turned on by everything and with this display of your power, I was also afterwards totally sure of my role, my love for this game and wanting to serve and please…